When a guy really likes a girl, it’s typically quite obvious. So too when he doesn’t. The uncertainty usually runs rampant if a guy seems to fall somewhere in between! You see, a guy can be somewhat interested, but not necessarily into you.
If you’re still wondering whether the guy you’re talking to is in it for the long haul or planning on ditching you at the next turn – the following signs are something you should definitely look out for!
#1. You Initiate Every Connection
Be it phone calls, texting, or social media interaction, if you’re the one always starting the conversation, it’s a sign he’s not that into you. Women are wired to be pursued, and men are wired to pursue. If you aren’t being pursued by the guy in question, it’s a red flag that he isn’t as invested as you are. If he doesn’t, take the sign for what it is and move on.
#3. He Makes No Effort To Be Part Of Your Life.
A guy who is excited about being with you will be excited to introduce you to the people who are important to him.
Obviously, if it’s early in the relationship, you should not be expecting to meet his grandma or show up to his dad’s birthday… But, if he only wants to hang out solo, and never wants to hang out with your family or have any deep feelings for you.
#4. – He Cancels At The Last Minute
You’re all made up and ready to go out, and then you suddenly receive a text from the guy saying that he can’t make it. You’re devastated – yet you’re tempted to convince yourself that there must be an emergency.
course, things happen, and sometimes we just have to cancel our plans. However, if it happens often, it may be a sign that this guy doesn’t value your time – and therefore finds it rather easy to just leave you hanging.
#5. You Don’t Have Much To Talk About,
if your text banter always falls apart rather quickly, this may be a sign that something’s off. If he avoids eye contact with you and isn’t a good listener when you talk, that’s even worse. A man who is interested in a woman wants to hear what she has to say.
He will listen and ask questions to learn more about her. A man who isn’t, won’t.
#6. He Tells You What You Want To Hear.
If a man is leading you on and isn’t that into you, it won’t keep him from saying exactly what you want to hear… If he’s a player, then he knows exactly what to say and do to get you interested!
So there’ll be times when he’ll pay you lots of compliments, or he’ll act like he ‘thinks’ you’re amazing. That said, the romance won’t last – there’s something missing, and it ends as quickly as it starts.
#7. He Makes No Time For You
Regardless of how busy a guy is, the right man will give you his time no matter how that busy that schedule looks.
He’ll enjoy spending time with you. So, if your guy spends more time hanging out with his friends, and avoids seeing you because he has too many daily responsibilities (and some ‘extra’ tasks at work he has to fulfill) – you can be sure you’re not headed in the same direction .
#8. You’re Having Doubts
The great thing about most men is that they can be very straightforward. If they like you, they’ll do what they can to let you know. And if they don’t, they can also be painfully blunt about it.
Doubt in itself tells you that he’s not going the extra mile to make sure his feelings or intentions are obvious.
#9. He Flirts With Everybody
It’s super easy to become interested in someone who’s flirting with you. After all, it can make you feel good… and that makes you wonder if you make them feel good too. Here’s the thing, if a guy is interested in you, he IS going to make a move.
So if you’re thinking that he’s interested in you because he’s flirting with you, but he’s NOT making a move and he flirts with lots of other people, he’s probably not that into you.
# 10. He Doesn’t Text Back In A Timely Manner
We all have busy lives, and no one has the time to sit there and text back every five seconds. However, this doesn’t give someone an excuse to take days to reply to a text.
#11. He Ghosted You
Ah, the classic dilemma that is sweeping our generation. If you hooked up with a guy, and he never ever responds to any of your text messages or calls, then you should just delete his number and move on.
he just doesn’t care. It sucks when you really like someone, and they’re just not into you – but it’s better to know sooner rather than later. Ladies, if a guy is doing any of these things to you, then do yourself a favor – take the hint and let him go.
You’ll be thankful for backing away before falling in too deep! What do you think? Are you currently interested in, or seeing a guy who shows any of these signs? And guys… Do you agree with this list? Did we miss anything? Let me know in the comments below!