Now there are myriad of reasons why a man won’t commit it could be possible that you’re just not the person for him but there are four big reasons why a man won’t commit and you need to know what they are. The first reason and the biggest reason quite frankly that a man won’t commit is because
#1. He doesn’t have financial stability.
Men are the providers they want to provide for their family and he’s just not going to commit if he doesn’t have the financial stability to take care of his wife and any possible children that may come from this commitment. The next reason a man won’t commit is that
#2. He just wants to have his freedom.
You know you’ve heard men joke about that old ball-and-chain the wife at home- he’s not allowed to do this he’s not allowed to do that if a man really really wants to have his freedom and his independence, it doesn’t really matter how amazing you are, he’s not going to commit to you. Another reason why he won’t commit is that
#3. He just wants a variety.
Yes, you guys know that it’s true right? A man knows that if he commits to one woman then all that variety goes out the window! Another reason why a man won’t commit is that
#4. He has unhealed childhood trauma or unhealed heartbreak from past relationships.
Now, this is one that a lot of people don’t talk about but it’s really important to healing all these issues from childhood or from past relationships before you get into another relationship.
There are just too many people out there that are going about just going from one relationship to the next without really dealing with the issues of why that relationship ended.
This is the same for women okay anyone that’s going out and dating with unhealed heartbreak it’s just going to attract the same situations over and over again. You owe it to yourself to take the time to heal before jumping into another relationship.
I know this is not the answer that you want to hear right now in fact I can feel your heart breaking through the camera right now but this is the truth of the matter. I never sugarcoat things for you your best bet is to just end it.
The truth is there’s really nothing that you can do to make a man suddenly be ready to commit to you and you deserve to have everything that you want. You deserve to have your love life look the way that you want it to look.
If you want marriage if you want a family then you can have that. But you just have to stop wasting months even years of your life with a man that is just not ready to commit.
This is really sad and I’m kind of getting a little bit sad right now because I know so many women that desired to have a family and waited years for a man to commit only to find out that he was never going to and they miss their chance to have children. but I just want to encourage you, women, to stop waiting okay?
You can be just as happy with another man but you’re not going to be happy with a man that’s not giving you what it is that you desire. That’s the story ladies walk away.
If you see that this man is not giving you what it is that you desire from your love life. and I have to say from experience the more you walk away from the wrong man, the easier that it gets.